
What if you became romantically involved with one of your staff?
What if you became romantically involved with one of your staff?
It’s a bold and important question to ask during the interview process for a supervisory position and the correct answer is “I would not do that”.
When we give someone a position of authority over others, one of the main things we need to be sure of is their character. Research shows that people will generally respect the official authority granted to others and follow their directions. History is full of examples of otherwise good people doing terrible things because they were required to do it by authority figures.
Since people tend to follow authority, we need to be extremely careful who we put into positions of authority. Wisdom on how to lead and the character to use authority ethically are the most important factors in choosing leaders. Wisdom can be learned over time, character is there to judge right from the start.
One argument for having sexual relations with a staff member might be that it is “true love”. If that is the case, that’s great, but a leader with good character will resign their position before engaging in the relationship in order to ethically carry on.
All other arguments around the acceptability of a relationship between a leader and their staff cite some flavour of mutual consent. No matter the circumstances or good intentions of the leader, these arguments carry no weight. In all cases, everyone else will question the character of the leader and be reluctant to trust that the leader has their best interest at heart. Trust in your leader is one of the most important factors in job performance and employee engagement. Anything that brings the judgement and character of a leader into question will have negative impact.
Improper relationships are one the best ways to destroy all trust inside a team.

Follow us on .
Leave a Reply
Demo the Inclusion System
- Let us show you how the Inclusion System makes agencies efficient and less stressed.
Demo Shiftshark
- Fill shifts in seconds
- Reduce Overtime
- Reduce grievances in unionized environments
- Put a smile on your on-call manager's face
Learn more about Shift Bidding!
- The simple way of filling vacant shifts.
- Just open shifts to your employees.
- Let them choose the shifts that work for them.
- And save time and stress from scheduling.
Try Shiftshark risk-free for 30 days
- Free live training delivered by system experts.
- Constant support and communication throughout your entire trial.
- Full-featured access to absolutely everything.
- Your data, your CBA, your rules, your way.
Trial the Inclusion System
- Free live training delivered by system experts.
- Constant support and communication throughout your entire trial.
- Full-featured access to absolutely everything.
- Your data, your CBA, your rules, your way.
Inclusion System extends our profound respect and immeasurable gratitude to all the ancestors and keepers of the land on whose traditional territories our work takes place. We acknowledge that we are on Treaty 1 territory, the traditional gathering place of the Anishinaabe, Cree, Oji-Cree, Dakota and Dene people and the traditional homeland of the Métis people. This land is sacred, historical, and significant.
Every time we acknowledge this truth, we have an invitation and an opportunity to reflect on the wrongs of the past, what we do in the present, and what we can do to continually honour the people whose lands and water we benefit from today.
This statement only acts as a first step in honouring the land we reside on and its peoples, and must be paired with education, understanding and informed action.
Hi! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any issues with hackers?
My last blog (wordpress) was hacked and I ended up losing a few months
of hard work due to no back up. Do you have any solutions to prevent hackers?